Saturday, October 26, 2013

Week of Oct. 20

Relief Society Purposes:
*Increase faith and personal righteousness
*Strengthen families and homes
*Seek out and help those in need

FAITH

Lesson Review:  Missionary Work:  "To Reach Every Human Heart"
Key Doctrine:
"This....should be our aim and object:  to learn to make ourselves useful; to be saviors to our fellow man; to learn how to save them; to communicate to them a knowledge of the principles that are necessary to raise them to the same degree of intelligence that we have ourselves." 

Invitation to Action:
"There is a way to reach every human heart, and it is your business to find the way to the hearts of those to whom you are called."

Promised Blessings:
"Inasmuch as they shall continually seek unto the Lord in humility, having an eye single to His honor and glory, and desiring in their hearts the salvation of the souls of men, and doing all they can to bring about their salvation, they shall have joy beyond expression in their labors in the flesh, and shall at last be made partakers with the Father and the Son of things too great and glorious for mortality to conceive or contemplate."

Missionary Opportunities:
Ward Christmas Concert

We would like to invite every family in the ward to share their testimony of the Savior at our Christmas Concert!  There are several ways this can be done- through art, photography, poetry, or music, or by simply extending an invitation to someone who you feel would benefit from our message about the Savior.

This is a missionary opportunity!  If possible, we would like each family to contribute something artistic that expresses their testimony of the Savior.  For example:

          *A drawing by a primary age child, youth, or adult accompanied by a brief testimony.

          *A poem that expresses gratitude or praise for the Savior and his life.

          * An original photograph or piece of sculpture that speaks to the Savior and his creations, or life, or 
             ministry.
These will be put on display along with your descriptions and testimonies.  The display will be open for the full-time missionaries to bring investigators, as well as for family, friends, and neighbors to enjoy. 

          * If you are musical, the Choir will be singing - please join and sing along with them!!

          * If you play a musical instrument, we are organizing a family orchestra that you can participate in.

In conjunction with the Art Display and Concert, we will also have a display of Christmas Creches. If you have one that you could contribute that would be wonderful!

There is an opportunity for anyone and everyone to be involved in this great missionary event!  Please be prayerful within your families about what you each can do to make this evening successful and enjoyable.

For questions or more information, please contact Jake (360-0058) or Jen Walz (709-6079), or a member of the Relief Society Presidency.

November 10th Lesson Topic:

Lorenzo Snow Chapter 21 - Loving God More Than We Love The World

FAMILY

Primary:

Primary Leaders Encourage Families to Focus on the Savior:

Youth Curriculum:

October Topic:  Becoming More Christlike

Dinner Recipes:

Check the side-link for a recipe for a frozen dinner, "Poppy Seed Chicken" that I have taken from our recent Relief Society Activity!
RELIEF

Visiting Teaching:

 Message from Sister Grethe P.:
As members of the Church the opportunities to serve are all around us.  There is always someone to serve.  Others, not closely identified with the church, may desire to serve, but may not know this is something missing in their lives, and often don't know how or where to start.
"In many people who are satisfied with their lives, the light of Chirst continues to create a deep need inside to help others...when we help others do God's will, they learn far more about what the church and the Spriit feels like than they ever could through a conversation or from attending a ward social." (Christensen, Clayton M., The Power of Everyday missionaries, p.47-48)

Every opportunity we have to serve is an opportunity to involve someone else.  We might include a sister to help teach a certain concept to a primary class.  If given the opportunity to speak in church you might ask a less-active sister you visit to listen to your talk in advance and ask her to give you pointers.  It is easy to ask a less active sister to help provide a meal or other service.  Youth have a particular power.  Involving a less active sister with service to the youth, and letting her feel the power of the young people can affect change.

Decoupling:  This is a concept where the person inviting someone to serve, separates the church from the opportunity to serve.  It is a way to assure them they are important, and their help is valuable.  We might say something like, " I know attending church is not something you may want to do right now, but we could really use your talents to _____."

Or we might say:  "You can say "no" if you want, but we could really use your help at_____".  Or we could say something like, "I was wondering if you would help me out.  I have to give a talk in church on Sunday and I have heard there may be people attending who are not members of our church.  I know we have terms that others may not understand.  Could you listen to my talk and tell me if there is something that might not be clear to someone unaccustomed to our ways?  I thought you might be more conscientious of those things than someone who came every week."

Decoupling is a way to avoid awkwardness for all involved, respecting a person's choices, while still giving opportunities to learn about the Church and what the Spirit feels like. (See Christensen, Clayton M., The Power of Everyday Missionaries, pp.27-28)

News:

Miranda Smith had a baby girl on October 19th at 12:22 a.m. McKoy weighed 7lbs. 4oz. and was 20" long. Congratulations Smith family!! 

*Stacie Day is engaged to be married in January!

* A note from Lynne Walz who is currently living in Japan:

"Our branch is a military branch.  There are wards and stakes on the island but because the military is so transient, all they get is a branch.  It is literally called the Futemna Military Branch.  Our branch is part of a district and not part of the stakes.  I think there are about 4 military branches.  The military branches speak English, the wards speak Japanese.  The branch is very friendly and very young.  They talk about all of their travels because Okinawa is so small and so close to Taiwan, South Korea, Japan, China and many others, the people in the military travel.  It's funny, because when I ask the members where they are from, most of them say Utah.  I thought I would be in a place where nobody knew where Idaho is, but most people here do."

Announcements:

* The Primary is looking for toy donations for the Nursery.  If you have toys that are in good condition, that you would be willing to donate to the Nursery, please bring them to Mindy Heiner's home.
* December 5th-7th - Burton 4th Ward Christmas Concert and Art Display

* December 14th at 11:00 - The ladies from the Lutheran church have invited the sisters from our ward to their Christmas Cantata Performance.  They are going to have a luncheon for us afterwards!  Be sure to mark your calendars and make an effort to attend.

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Week of October 13th

RELIEF SOCIETY PURPOSES:
*Increase faith and personal righteousness
*Strengthen families and homes
*Seek out and help those in need

FAITH

Lesson Review:  Visiting Teaching Conference

Key Doctrine:
We have been called to participate in the Lord's work of Salvation.  The work of Salvation includes conversion, retention, and activation of His children.  It is missionary work, it is the work of gathering, it is the work of Relief Society Sisters anxiously engaged in visiting teaching.
Invitation to Action:
In the allegory of the Lord's Vineyard, the Lord asks his servants to watch over, nourish, dig, prune, dung, and labor with their might to preserve the fruit of His vineyard.  As visiting teachers, that is our commission.  We have been asked to watch over, nourish, dig, prune, dung, and labor with our might on behalf of our sisters and their families.
Promised Blessings:
In the allegory of the Lord's Vineyard, the Lord's servants have two marvelous blessings, they go forward in the power of the Lord, and the Lord labors with them.  The Lord then says to them, "And blessed art thou; because ye have been diligent in laboring with me in my vineyard...behold ye shall have joy with me because of the fruit of my vineyard.:  (Jacob 5:75)
October 27th Lesson Topic:
 Lorenzo Snow Chapter 20 - "The Kingdom of God Moves Forward"

FAMILY

Primary:

Let Primary Music Bless Your Home
 
"We, who have the gospel of Jesus Christ, have something to sing about!" 
- Janice Kapp Perry


Youth Curriculum:

 October Topic:  Becoming More Christlike


Dinner Recipes:
Check side-link for weekly up-dates!
RELIEF
Visiting Teaching:
 Focus on Visiting Teaching - from the visiting teaching conference we had on Oct. 13th:

Jesus taught Peter and His other disciples about feeding His sheep in John 21:15-17.  He asked Peter if he loved him three times.  Three times Peter vowed his love for Jesus, and Jesus gave him the same injunction but with slight variations.  Twice Jesus told Peter to "Feed my sheep," and once He said, "Feed my lambs."  The word 'sheep' can mean a flock of sheep, or it can mean an individual adult animal.  We could draw from the metaphor Jesus used that His disciples have the responsibility to look after His floc, each individual adult and His lambs.  The lambs can mean children or it could mean those with the greatest need, which could be any of us at different times in our lives.

In this metaphor, we easily apply the Savior's call for each on of us who have made covenants that one very important way the Lord gives us to obey His call to feed His sheep is through Visiting Teaching.  Our discussion during our visiting teaching conference focused on how we can be more effective.

Isaiah 55:8-9:

8 For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord.

9 For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so
are my ways higher than your ways, and
my thoughts than your thoughts.

A past Relief Society General President gave some principles we can apply to be most helpful as we visit our sisters. (See Charity: The Love of the Lord in Your Life, Bonnie D. Parkin, Spring 2005 Open House)

1. Love: John 14:15, Jesus said, "If ye love me, keep my commandments."  The first reason we strive to be consistent visiting teachers is because we love the Lord.  And because we love him and he has enlisted us in His work, being conscientious visiting teachers is a way to show love for our Savior and the sister He has given us the responsibility to visit.

2. Seeking to understand the sister:  Through consistent visiting, be-friending our sister, and praying for them and seeking direction concerning them, the Lord will reveal to us how we can serve them.  "Oh, naught but the spirit's divinest tuition, Can give us the wisdom to truly succeed." (As Sisters in Zion, Hymns, 309)

3. Avoid being judgmental:  What ever a sister's situation, we cannot know what battles are going on whether or not we can see the consequences.  Our sisters need encouragement and validation of the Lord's love for her, which can come when her visiting teachers accept her.

4. Avoid giving personal advice. Sister Shandell Hinckley said it best when she pointed out since we don't know the whole story, we should not/cannot presume to give advice about what a sister should do to resolve her issues.

5.  Help the sister to help herself.  Sister Parkin taught that "solving another sister's problems may weaken her ability to ponder, analyze, pray and seek divine guidance concerning the solutions.  Asking questions, guided by the spirit, may be a way to help through the process and allow her to be receptive to the spirit.

6. Suggest the service of others:  Visiting teachers can encourage the sister to seek help from family members, direct her to the bishop to receive counsel or other resources in the community.

7. Keep confidences:  Visiting teachers must honor the trust of her sisters by keeping confidences.  Her trust in you will build her confidence in herself and strengthen her ability to help herself and trust in the Lord.

8. Visits should be done in the home:  Second only to the temple, the home is considered the most sacred place on earth (see Bible dictionary, p781). The home is a place a sister may be most comfortable confiding in her visiting teachers and wehre the spirit is most accessible to all.

Announcements:

*Angie R. is looking for a home health nurse for Gracie.  If anyone is aware of someone who could spend 5 hours a day with Gracie, please contact Angie at 359-0547.
*We will be meeting in the new building this Sunday, October 20th.  Our meetings will begin at 1:00 p.m. with Sacrament Meeting first.
*The Burton 4th Ward October Relief Society Activity will be held on October 24th at 7:00 p.m. in the new church!
Come to the RELIEF SOCIETY FALL FESTIVAL OF 
FOOD AND FUN
Where you'll find a little something for 
everyone.

Whether FREEZING MEALS for later is your style.
Or making a SMOOTHY would bring a smile.

If eating wheat just cannot be
We'll help you learn to go GLUTEN FREE.

We'll meet at the NEW CHURCH, October 24th at 
7 p.m
Don't be late and bring a friend.

So come the the RELIEF SOCIETY FALL FESTIVAL 
OF FOOD AND FUN
Where we hope to see everyone!!

* The Primary is looking for toy donations for the NurseryIf you have toys that are in good condition, that you would be willing to donate to the new Nursery, please bring them to Mindy Heiner's home.

Happy birthday to these sisters who have birthdays in October!:

 

October 2nd -   Amy Z.
October 3rd -  Cherese S.
October 5th - Sarah Clawson
October 8th - Anjie R.
October 17th - Cora Lee G.
October 20th - Sarah P.
October 21st - Stella E.
October 25th - Ariann R.
October 27th - Cassie J.
October 29th - Julianne W.
October 31st - Lee Anne A.

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